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A Website with a Big Job
Our website has a ridiculously big job.
It's home to our coffee shop, farmhouse store, professional counseling practice, workshops, retreats, weddings, shamanic gatherings...and soon, a couple of cabins and yurts. Frankly, we're asking a lot of one website.
It's where you'll find our fair-trade coffee, thoughtfully sourced from small farmers around the world, vegan baked goods, handmade gifts from artisans near and far, and many of the things I make myself—from skincare and aura sprays to artwork, drums, and rattles.
It's also where you'll learn about my work as a Licensed Professional Counselor. Over the past 25 years, my practice has grown from traditional cognitive therapies to mind-body approaches and eventually into shamanic practices. Turns out, learning never really ends.
The River Runs Through is more than a coffee shop.
How Is It Possible to Feel Better After Only 6–12 Sessions of The Threshold Process?
One of the most common questions people ask about The Threshold Process is:
“How can something shift so deeply in only 6–12 sessions?”
Especially in a culture where healing is often seen as long, endless, or dependent on years of processing, the idea of meaningful transformation in a relatively short period of time can feel surprising.
But healing is not always about the amount of time spent.
Often, it’s about the depth of presence, intention, safety, and embodiment within that time.
The Threshold Process was created to be focused, intentional, and transformational — not something designed to keep you dependent on the process indefinitely.
Healing Happens When We Feel Safe Enough to Change
Many people are not struggling because they “don’t know enough” about themselves. Often, they already understand their patterns intellectually.
The Threshold Process works on multiple levels at once — mind, body, nervous system, energy, and spirit. Because of this integrative approach, shifts can happen more quickly than talk therapy alone.
Rather than endlessly analyzing the wound, the work focuses on creating conditions where transformation can actually occur.
Why the Threshold Process Is Both Similar To — and Different From — Traditional Talk Therapy
There comes a moment in many healing journeys when insight is no longer enough.
You understand why you feel anxious, disconnected, exhausted, reactive, numb, or stuck — and yet your body still carries the weight of it.
This is often where traditional talk therapy reaches its edge, and where deeper embodied work begins.
The Threshold Process was created for that threshold: the space between understanding your wounds and truly transforming them.
The Power of Gratitude, Especially When Life Feels Hard
Gratitude can sound like a luxury when you are overwhelmed, grieving, exhausted, or simply doing your best to get through the day. In difficult seasons, it may even feel dismissive, like you are being asked to “look on the bright side” when what you really need is to be seen in the truth of what is happening.
But real gratitude is not pretending everything is fine. It is not bypassing pain. It is a steady, practical way to stay connected to what is still true, still supportive, and still alive inside you, even when life is heavy.
Gratitude does not erase hardship. It helps you meet it with more steadiness.
Why “no” is a complete sentence
Boundaries
Boundaries are not walls. They are clarity. They are how you protect your time, energy, and wellbeing so you can show up to your life with more steadiness, honesty, and care.
Many people struggle with boundaries because they confuse them with being harsh or selfish. In reality, a boundary is often an act of respect. It tells the truth about what you can and cannot do, and it prevents resentment from building in silence.
Wasting Energy on Worry: Anxiety in a Cuter Outfit
Worry often pretends to be helpful. It sounds like preparation, responsibility, and “staying on top of things.” But most of the time, worry is just anxiety dressed up to look productive.
It keeps your mind busy, but it rarely moves your life forward.
How Shamanic Practices Can Help You See Beyond the Ego
The ego is not “bad.” It is a protective identity structure built from experiences, roles, and survival strategies. The problem is that it can become the loudest voice in the room, convincing you that your thoughts, defenses, and stories are the full truth of who you are…